All of a Sudden!

I don't like changes and am thinking I probably never will. Looking back over the last year there has been alot of them. Most good, itleast for one person or the other. I love the fact we have lived in the same house for most of our childrens lives. I wouldn't want to move, change jobs or even get a different car. I guess my lack of loving change has brought on a big change in my life. All of a suddden nothing is as it was. Over time it won't feel like change it will just be the why it is. I wish I was one of those free spirited people that thrown in any situation quickly adjust but that I'm not. I have however decided my coping mechanism isn't working. I am going to have to paddle or sink!